You can tell when someone doesn't love themselves; they're defensive, hostile, aggrivated easily, very serious, judgemental, and cold.
People who don't love themselves have a hard time trusting and loving others. They live in fear and worry, and project their negative opinions onto the people all around them (or online)
Negative thinking is a modern-day epidemic, and is the reason why so many people are suffering miserably.
The sad truth is most people don't know what they're thinking, because they're influenced by sources they're not aware of.
Most people want quick and easy fixes to big rooted problems, for little to no effort, at a minimal cost.
Most people have a really hard time acknowledging what it takes to mature, in order to be at peace and harmonious within oneself and in relation.
I hope that's not you. I'm hoping you want to rise into your best version, and are willing to roll-up your sleeves to get it, because I'll tell you being a happy, satisfied and peaceful person is pricelss in this world gone mad.
Happy and peaceful people are exquisitely attractive, and rare.
I'm hoping you're one of the rare ones who really wants to figure things out, so that you can be happy and feel at peace, so that you can enjoy life, live less in your head, and more in your heart-soul-body.
I want you to make more love. That's my mission and goal.
If you're feeling lost and confused, isolated and alone, even if you're in a relationship or surrounded by people, you're not the only one.
Many people, like you perhaps, are going through a time of great questioning, and are suffering horrendously from disconnection.
People are being bombarded by negative information, sales, opinions, and obsurdities.
Some call it 'The Dark Night of the Soul'. A time where you have to pick up all your scattered peices and attempt at making yourself whole again, because this world-gone-mad may seem to have reduced you to bits!
Life is throwing you a WAKE-UP! call. That's why you're reading this.
If your relationships are struggling, or if you don't have any, there's nothing you need to do, there is something you need to know.
We all go through an evolutionary process in order to find clarity, at critical junctures in our lives, when life seems to be not working or when our love lives are messy or sad.
Pain, relational distress, and loneliness are wake-up calls that are asking you upgrade your life skills, while honoring what you've lived through.
My wake-up call came when my family was falling apart, and I had to ask myself "what's my part in healing this?".
You're the common denominator in your life, so therefore only you are responsible for making it what you want it to be.
How do you wish to proceed then, knowing this?
Do you want to learn how to embody the skills that will allow you to radiate self-confidence and exude personal power?
Were you taught these skills at home? Or at school?
Change and clarity is found in knowledge, mentorship, and guidance.
Clarity is essential in order to know what choices to make.
Our life is CAUSED by every single thought and word we think and speak.
Do you know what you're thinking?
Do you want to RETURN TO LOVE, but don't know how?
Do you want to learn from someone who Knows?
After the 21 Days you will be able to...
Deepen Intimate Exchanges
Feel Connected & Grounded
Embody your Spirit, for good
Gain Clarity & Find Solutions
Heal Yourself
What you're looking for is a perspective shift, one that will cause self-awareness, in the most compassionate and caring way,
which will result in feeling deeply connected and cause more love.
Most people don't know how to love themselves, because they were never taught, and if you don't know how to truly love yourself, then no one can.
If you're in an endless loop experiencing the same problems, then learning how to love yourself, so that you can gain clarity, is what this journey is about.
If we don't learn our lessons from relational failure, they'll keep repeating until we learn what to do and what not to.
You can't move past your blocks if you don't know what to make of them.
As people age, their beliefs cement, and the most unattractive quality in a person, is their resistance to learning and change.
The old ways of relating are over.
If you're still reading this, chances are you know a change is needed, because pain is a wake-up call for growth.
Self-awareness and emotional intelligence are qualities that make a person sexy and attractive. If you lack these skills, you might be feeling, well, miserable.
I'm in Love with a conscous man, and I helped shape him, and he helped shape me.
I'm going to help you learn how to radically love yourself, even if it feels impossible, by inspiring you to think differently.
You might be someone who has been disrespected, beaten-down, used and abused, rejected, endlessly critisized or betrayed, whatever your case may be,
You can grow emotional awareness and learn how to have healthy boundaries, which protects and serves you, and seems like a really hot commodity these days.
Men love a woman who knows and honors herself.
Ladies love a man who is grounded and likes to learn.
This journey is about upgrading the way you see, so that there is less suffering and time spent dealing with pain, whatever its cause or effect, so that you can find your way through to love, sexy-time, peace and joy.
There's no war where there's understanding.
This guide will help you radiate confidence, day-by-day for 10-20 minutes each day, by learning essential skills that will help improve your relationships and attract the people and experiences that you crave and yearn for, based in a deep love for yourself.
Whether you've been single for so long that you've forgotten what it feels like to be touched intimately, or are in a relationship that is struggling, or facing separation or divorce, or maybe you're going through an existential crisis, hate your job, your looks, or whatever the case may be, learning how to love yourself is wise and can turn your whole world around just by employing the skills that will CAUSE more love, connection and experience.
Seeing yourself from a higher perspective, through positive encouragement and inspiration will raise your VIBE, and that is SEXY and ATTRACTIVE!
That's what's on this menu.
On this journey towards Radical Self-Love, you're going to receive 21 days of healing and illuminating wisdom from me, a teacher of healing, via your email box.
For every word, there's a reason.
It takes 21 days to form new habits. You're naturally going to solve a lot of your problems by learning how to enter into a positive vibration. Everything changes when you're in a positive state. From this place, you will be able to receive clarity! Clarity is precious!
Wait until you see what clarity provides!
Negative and stressful re-occuring thoughts, over many years time, cause diseases like Cancer, Heart disease, Stroke, ED, and Auto-Immune disorders which can be prevented by learning how to acknowledge your need for love, dignity, and respect.
Most people don't know what they're thinking. A lot of people are actually addicted to suffering, sadly its true.
Our human brains create a lot of thoughts. If we don't consider how we choose our thoughts, our life will tell us their quality.
All disease and dissatisfaction stems from the self, and can only be remedied through thoughtful and caring introspection, based in compassion and love, so that healing can take place, and so that life can take on wings!
It all begins in the mind.
We're going to make it a safe place to be.
Imagine, in three weeks from now you feel good in your body, present, excited, and inspired. A healing is occuring and you can feel it.
The walls have come down.
Your senses are heightened.
You're discovering new parts of yourself. Life feels fun. You feel grounded, embodied, confident, magnetic, and attractive.
We all need guidance and mentorship from time-to-time. Especially when you feel down and out.
The Universe is only able to give you what you believe you deserve. People can only Love, Value, and Respect you to the degree that you are able to do so for YOURSELF.
Can we push the envelope?
The thing is, your past may be keeping you stuck in mental thought patterns that your Soul yearns to outgrow, that traditional therapies can't touch or heal. There is no amount of yoga, breathwork or talk therapy that can amount to the healing that occurs when you're inspired to evolve past what you know, using wisdom that is RARE.
If you're feeling stuck in any way, listen to that VOICE inside of you that is asking for your attention.
That voice may be telling you to pack it all up and move to Toledo, but I think you an I both know that no matter where you go, there you are.
There are some things you can't run away from. It's good, even great, to face the music when life's demanding your attention.
This 21 Day Journey is wild.
WHAT'S WITH THE WORD "BOUNDARIES"?
Having healthy boundaries is a byproduct of learning how to unconditionally love yourself. Naturally, without effort, the people who are meant to be in your life, will be present, and those who are no longer a match for your elevated vibration, will either have to rise to your level, or fall away, without you having to do anything at all.
This is a fact.
I Will Teach You How To Embody a Positive Vibration, for Good.
It takes the same amount of energy to think positive thoughts as it does to think negative thoughts, so which will you choose?
When you are HARMONIOUS
within your OWN SELF,
life EXPANDS,
and your relationships FLOURISH.
In November of 2019 I almost lost the love of my life, due to our own ignorance and emotional illiteracy.
We almost went past the point of no-return.
Neither of us were skilled at communicating our needs, so we both felt misunderstood whenever we needed to have a heart-to-heart.
We both came from broken homes where there was a lot of screaming and yelling, and not a lot of love and affection.
So naturally, the Universe paired us together for us to learn some very valuable skills through our Union, in ways we were never taught.
We both lacked the skills to navigate true intimacy. Yet we were in Love.
That's when I knew I needed to improve my relational skills, because despite what society tell us, relationships are the most important aspects of our lives. I went back to school, and upgraded my software system, and you're about to receive everything I learned and now teach.
I help people live gorgeous lives. We succeed through positive associations!
If you've never receieved a manual to self-love, self-respect, and dignity,
I've got you!
The value will blow your mind.
I knew I had to create a manual, based in all the teachings I'd received, so that everyone can find success and joy in their lives, because suffering is at an all-time high and there is a better way.
When you don't feel at peace or at home within yourself, how can you feel those things in a relationship?
The quality of your thoughts, are the basis for the quality of your life!
Negative projections will kill a connection in 0.2 seconds flat!
"The 21 Day Radical Self-Love Challenge
or 'Love-School' is $99 bucks, which is less than the money I spend on junk at Target!
It's so fun opening the emails everyday.
I 'm on Day 15 - Love, Sex, Romance, & Intimacy and my mind is blown in the best ways. Thank you Marian!" - Linda
The point at which negativity is transformed into positivity is COURAGE. Courage is necessary to eradicate anxiety and depression.
Without the use of courage in daily life, you are more susceptible to mental illness.
If you're someone who is afraid to step out or step up, make a move, or take a risk, you're probably sick and tired of feeling that way.
Each day, for 21 Days, I'm going to guide you into the depths of your heart and cause you to act from an inspired place, which is DIVINE and courageous. World, watch out!
The sign for a high Intelligence Quotient & Emotional Quotient (IQ & EQ),
is the ability to change.
I will teach you how to notice and change your thoughts, by providing Spiritually Illuminating Knowledge,
so that you can naturally heal your heart, make more love, and enjoy all your relations.
If you can't wait to be tranformed in 21 Days, I've got a solution for that.
If you need guidance, RIGHT NOW, that will help shape your future in the brightest way possible, using creative ideas and sound wisdom, I'm here to talk.
When you checkout, you can add a ONE-ON-ONE call that will help support you on your 21 DAY journey to loving yourself and healing your life.
If you're unhappy, traumatized, unsatisfied and in emotional turmoil, you need a change, RIGHT NOW.
You need you to be at your best.
Following the guidance,
causes empowerment,
which leads to expansion,
healing and immense joy.
Learning how to Love Yourself teaches others how to Love You.
It's that simple.
In a world full of agonizing divorces, custody battles, no-fun dating games, name calling, avoidance, violence, and fights over possessions, beliefs and borders...
I think we can do better.
1. Attune your senses towards warmth and care.
2. Move through stuckness and invite Serendipity
3. Employ your Intuition and Instinct
4. Transcend and Transform
5. Invite New, Nutritive & Wholistic experiences Into Your Life
6. Learn To Notice Qualities You've previously Overlooked
Each day, for 21 days,
I'll send you an email message on how to
reclaim your love for your own self
using this guide as your tool for self-illumination.
Have you got 10-20 minutes a day to love yourself and get wild in your life?
You can spend your whole life thinking negative thoughts about yourself and never question it. It's time to clean and
make-over your mental house!
*** This challenge is meant to cause healing and evolution ***
Maybe you’ve gone the traditional psycho therapy route, which is re-occuring and substantial in cost, seems to never end, and is typically one-sided.
Maybe you’ve spent your resources relying on prescription drugs and/or alcohol, or have thought that online shopping would bring you solace.
Maybe you cope with your feelings with food.
No judgment.
I have heard it all.
We've all been there, but you've got to mature to enjoy the juicy fruit;)
Emotional intelligence and maturity is sexy, attractive, and rare (sadly).
The only way out is through.
It's a practical guide, and you'll begin to see/feel/embody your results as quickly as you start reading the teachings, which are pretty short, in contrast with their efficiency.
There is NO THING more important than the relationship you have with yourself. Your thoughts manifest their physical equivalent, so know that everything you experience in life is a reflection based in the quality of your thoughts.
Your prize for taking this $99 journey?
Emotional, Physical & Spiritual Alignment
Each day builds upon the teachings from the previous one.
I'll be with you every step, only an email away, until you gain clarity and evolution.
My question is:
Are you ready to say YES! to life?
Shall we see how good things can get?
Let's get started already!
In Service To Your Spirit,
Marian xo
(P.S. Self-Love School begins on the Monday following your purchase. AND I'm trying this out at $99 to see how it goes. No guarentees its gonna stay there. I wish my mom gave me this guide before I turned 40! Hahaha!)